Sunday, April 27, 2025

Karyn January Cheng

I’ve struggled to find the right words for this. I had intended to share these thoughts on January 31, Karyn’s birthday, but I couldn’t bring myself to do it. I felt that once posted, I’d have to fully accept that Karyn is no longer part of my tangible world. Still, I struggle to comprehend that my roommate from college, who has been there for so many milestones in my life, is truly gone.

There is so much I will miss...
Her sparkling bright eyes dancing as she breaks into a huge, warm smile...
Her contagious laugh erupting spontaneously over the silliest little things...
All her nuanced, varying facial expressions — of which her quizzical looks and excited expressions stand out the most in my mind.

I will miss receiving Christmas cards and birthday cards written with the most perfect, beautiful handwriting — it really should be patented into a computer font. I remember glancing over at her exquisite notes while sitting next to her during lectures. Gaping in awe, I felt compelled to write neater myself.

Karyn had a knack for finding treasures — small, thoughtful gifts that always felt handpicked for your soul. Simple, yet deeply meaningful.

Other fond moments that stand out:
Waking up to the sound of her conversing with her family of seals in "stuffed animal language" every morning...

Curling up to watch Beaches (the 1988 musical comedy) on my tiny 13" TV-VCR combo, perched atop our lofted dorm beds, sipping sweet hot drinks, laughing and crying together in the soft dark...

I can still recall bits and pieces of conversations from the countless talks we had — sharing stories about growing up, about our extended families and the black sheep among them, about high school prom, about boys, and about our dreams for the future...

She was there for all the significant occasions in my life — present during my highest highs and a solid support during my lowest low as well.

Later, even when life pulled us to opposite coasts, we made time to reconnect, to share meals, to make memories. Those who know Karyn know — every trip promised amazing food! Our last plans were disrupted by Covid and I'm most heartbroken that we were not able to squeeze in just one more adventure together... we were aiming for 2025... so you see... I am still really not yet completely accepting that our journey here has come to an abrupt pause... ... ...

Well, they say pictures speak a thousand words, so here are a few snapshots…

a glimpse of her silliness... this was during college...

MIT graduation in 1997...

my wedding day in 2002...

She was one of the first folks to visit after I had my firstborn in 2007

afternoon tea in Chicago

yummy breakfast

one of my very favorite dinners ever... Mexico 2018


I miss you, dear friend... ... ... 

I miss your light, your laughter, and your love.

Until we meet again... 

Sunday, May 12, 2024

Mother's Day Haikus

Long time no write! So honest truth... the struggle is real with mothering teenagers...


Felt like writing some haikus...


Today is a day 

To appreciate mothers

Shower them with love


Not an easy task

This role of being a mom

So many demands


Although there is stress

Sometimes tears and frustrations

But still there is love


So hug your mother

On this day and every day

Let her know you care


Happy Mothers Day

May there be more smiles than frowns

More laughter and joy


got these from work!

Thursday, November 23, 2023

With a Thankful Heart

Many milestones and changes this past year... So thankful for all of these and so much more...

  • Celebrating my dad's 80th birthday
  • Commemorating my parents' 50th Wedding Anniversary
  • My firstborn hitting Sweet 16
  • Privilege to serve with Wrightstown Family Medicine for 16 years
  • New opportunity to reach the neediest populations at Dedicated Senior

HAPPY THANKSGIVING, EVERYONE!!

 The LORD is my strength and my shield;

in him my heart trusts, and I am helped;
my heart exults, and with my song I give thanks to him.
- Psalm 28:7



Wednesday, May 10, 2023

Chapter Ending

It is with a very heavy heart that I announce that my time at Wrighstown Family Medicine is coming to an end. After July this summer, I will be transitioning to serving the medicare advantage population closer to Philly.

Meeting Paul Caracappa and joining him in his vision to make a lasting impact on the surrounding community has been a true honor and privilege. Not only do we strive to offer the best medical care to our patients, but we also endeavor to offer comfort and a hope that is eternal. Forming close relationships with both the staff as well as the patients has been the most meaningful part of my entire time at Wrightstown Family Medicine. We have shared joys and sorrows, triumphs and setbacks... laughed, cried, and celebrated together...

So why the transition? Honestly, it was not something I foresaw coming but when it came to my attention that doctors were needed in a more underserved population treating the elderly, my heart was pulled. I remember why I decided to go to medical school in the first place.

In high school, I used to drive my grandfather three times a week to a hospital in Trenton. It was hard watching him struggle with high blood pressure which led to him needing kidney dialysis. Then he had a stroke which required us to call 911. I still remember how helpless I felt riding in the front seat of that ambulance, but that is when I decided to go into medicine. I wanted to be able to help folks like my grandfather.

The medical road is a long one and I am grateful for the support and encouragement of my collegaues and friends who have helped me along the way to become the doctor that I am today. Being at Wrighstown for the past sixteen years has been a true blessing. Words cannot do it justice. Although it is with sadness that I go, I am also exctied and ready to face the new challenges, experiences, and opportunities that is to come. In the end, leaving Wrighstown Family Medicine is not just a farewell, but a reminder of the power of relationships and the impact we can have on others. It is a celebration of God's faithfulness. So, here I am closing one chapter of my life and getting ready to start a new.

postcard we sent out 16 years ago when I first joined the practice!

Sunday, January 1, 2023

Happy 2023!

This is the first year that we let our kids stay up for the actual Ball Drop in Times Square. In years past, we would celebrate the countdown with countries in other time zones so that our kids can get to bed by a decent hour. Fussy kids are no fun... but neither are fussy adults. Being more disciplined with sleep is one of my goals for 2023.

Most are familiar with how sleep can benefit your mood and immune system. Did you know it can also help with preventing weight gain? Few theories out there but one thought is that ghrelin, a hormone that makes you hungry, is increased with less sleep. At the same time, leptin, a hormone that tells you that you are full, is decreased. There are also studies that suggest lack of sleep promotes prediabetes which can then lead to diabetes, as well as worsen sugar control for those who already have diabetes.

So the reasons are many... but I find it super hard to do. The wee hours before bedtime is the only "me time" I really get and unfortunately, as the kids get older this time has shrunk. They used to all be in bed by 8pm at the latest. Now, it is a real struggle to get my middle schooler in bed before 10p. My high schooler is on her own... sometimes she is up even later doing homework. I suppose I will have to brainstorm ways...

Well... happy new year, everyone!


Sunday, December 25, 2022

Night Before Christmas 2022

It is that time of year again when we're getting a lot of sick calls... sinus infections... strep... flu... covid... you name it! And yes... they are all contagious. Stay healthy, everyone!

All's quiet in the Kim household...

our second daughter baked the cookies herself


we finally got a gas fireplace


“For unto us a child is born, unto us a son is given: and the government shall be upon his shoulder: and his name shall be called Wonderful, Counsellor, The mighty God, The everlasting Father, The Prince of Peace” (Isaiah 9:6).

Merry Christmas!

Tuesday, November 8, 2022

KDramas

It has been a while since I posted. Covid hit my life like a cyclone spinning all the different components out of place and even now as things settle, it is just not the same. We are all adjusting to the "new normal"... whatever that means. I imagine work in particular has worn me down quite a bit and I am tired of thinking and talking... especially if it is about Covid. Compound that with the kids all growing a little older and our two girls reaching adolescence, my heart is lamenting how the parent-child relationship has changed. The challenge has made me emotionally exhausted.... but more on that in another post.

So what do I want to write about if not about Covid or parenting? I decided that I'll throw in a post about KDramas. It is the one piece that got thrown into my mix during Covid that has been a fun distraction and escape. With that said, it is only a temporary and fleeting reprieve. Scripture is still the only true sustainable fuel that fills my empty mental and emotional tanks. I need to remind myself of familiar passages such as:

But those who trust in the LORD will find new strength. They will soar high on wings like eagles. They will run and not grow weary. They will walk and not faint. (Isaiah 40:3 New Living Translation)

Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. 
(Matthew 11:28 NIV)


Now a little about my momentary diversions...  here are a few dramas that stood out to me. For diversity, I'll pick from different genres.

Crash Landing on You

This is a lighthearted romantic comedy and since it is one of the first KDramas that drew me in, I have to mention it. The chemistry between the two main leads is cute and they ended up dating for real afterward, even getting married and expecting their first child. Furthermore, the soldier sidekicks were hilarious and added an important element. I ended up rewatching it with my kids, who also really got into it. The contrast of everyday life that was illustrated between North and South Korea was what made this drama unique.

Mr. Sunshine

The beautiful cinematography, superb acting, and gripping storyline all consumed me during this watch. The back story of the three male leads and their roles were so cleverly woven together, it left a lingering impression. The love story was subtle but pulled at the heart. This drama was engrossing and deep and caused me to think about it for days even after finishing. I even got my mom hooked to watch it. There are definitely more graphic violent scenes so I did not show this to my kids.

Hotel Del Luna

If you like a little bit of scary mixed in with humor and romance then this drama is a must-watch. I generally do not like horror movies but this drama has just enough humor in it for it to not be categorized as a true horror movie. It is more of a fantasy romance with a fascinating storyline that had me on the edge of my seat wondering how it was all going to end. There was only one scene where I had to plug my ears and peek through my fingers to watch... (the closet scene!) Finally, I have to mention the music because the soundtrack for this drama is exceptionally moving.

Vincenzo

This drama is back to a bit more lighthearted and fun but throws in some kick-butt action and mafia scenes. I actually really like lawyer shows and this is one of several that I've enjoyed (maybe because I'm in the medical profession, I don't really like watching medical shows). What stood out to me was the humor and action. There is a bit of violence and gore in some of the scenes but just as how Hotel Del Luna was not an outright horror movie due to humor, I feel this is not just an action movie due to the humor. There is a tinge of romance but I feel it was not the main draw.

Kill Me Heal Me

This has become my new favorite KDrama and Ji Sung has become my favorite Korean actor. He plays a character with dissociative personality disorder and displays seven different personalities remarkably well. The storyline is captivating and this is a drama I will want to rewatch. However, it is not on Netflix. You can watch it on Viki if you get the Viki Plus Pass or on Kocowa which is free but has a lot of interruptions with advertisements. Hoping it will come to Netflix soon.


Well, that is it for now. I'll post something more useful later. Maybe...

Saturday, May 28, 2022

So this will be FAREWELL and not GOODBYE....

My office manager of 17 years from work is retiring. This post is a tribute to all that she has done for the office, staff, patients, and myself...

Here are her answers to some common questions.


When did you start working at WFM?
1. Started WFM in 2005
I came along side Dr. Caracappa to fulfill and assist his passion and plan to begin the exciting inception of Wrightstown Family Medicine with our 1st patient on 12/15/2005.

What did you enjoy most about your time with WFM?
2. My greatest joy and pleasure while working at WFM was to see how God worked in and through the doctors, myself and our staff to assist in the healing of our patients physically, mentally as well as spiritually!
I was the audience of endless personal success stories over these 17 years.

What will you miss the most?
3. I WILL greatly miss being the "MOMANGER" (a name the staff gave me) of the
office to have the honor, privilege and pleasure to love on, unite & assist my staff in any way I could.

What will you not miss the most?
4. I will NOT miss being in a closed office setting moving forward with freedom to enjoy travel to enjoy outdoor nature and God's fingerprints all around us each day!

What are your plans now?
5. The next step and great passion with excitement of retirement for me will involve more time with our 2 adult married children and 6 grandchildren!
My husband and I purchased a Motor Home last November and sold our home in  December in preparation of this next step.
Our plan is to travel out West and around our amazing USA in our home on wheels!!!!

Any parting wisdom you want to leave to our staff and/or patients?
6. I'm known for my "Momanger isms" of which I will leave you with just one...
DO YOUR BEST
PRAY IT'S BLESSED
AND GOD WILL TAKE CARE OF THE REST......

So this will be FAREWELL and not GOODBYE....
===

You will truly be missed. Thank you for all that you have done and may God bless you and your family as you embark on your next journey!











Sunday, May 8, 2022

Happy Mother's Day

To all the mothers out there... hope you feel loved, honored, and blessed... not just today but every day!


Our local community experienced a heart-wrenching tragedy recently that has hit me especially hard because it involves a mother. I am still sorting out my jumbled emotions and thoughts... I have no words...


but I will hang on to these words that offer me some peace and hope to hold on to... 


"May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit." (Romans 15:13)


"He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away." (Revelation 21:4)


"Let your unfailing love be with us, Lord, even as we put our hope in you." (Psalm 33:22)


So it has been way too long since I've last posted. So much has happened in the "Covid World" since... one of the best things is that we now have medication that we can prescribe in the outpatient setting. Make sure you contact your doctor if you test positive to see if is right for you. Also, if you haven't done so already, you can order free home tests here.


Happy Mother's Day, everyone! 


My baby is growing too fast...

Wednesday, February 2, 2022

CDC Covid Quarantine and Isolation Guidelines

Guidelines keep changing and can be confusing... so here I'll try to break down the most recent recommendations to the simplest form...

"I got exposed to someone with a positive Covid test... now what?"

  • If no symptoms and up to date with vaccines or had confirmed covid in last 90 days
    • no need to quarantine but wear mask for 10 days
    • can test on Day 5
    • watch for symptoms for 10 days
  • If no symptoms but not up to date with vaccines
    • quarantine 5 days at home (mask around family members)
    • mask for 10 days while watching for symptoms
    • can test on Day 5
  • If yes symptoms regardless of vaccine status or previous exposure status
    • test on Day 2-3
    • isolate 5 days at home then wear mask for full 10 days
  • If yes symptoms and very sick
    • test on Day 2-3
    • isolate 10 days and contact doctor before ending isolation
"I just tested positive... now what?"

Regardless of vaccine status:
  • no symptoms
    • isolate 5 days then wear mask for 
  • yes symptoms
    • isolate 5 days then wear mask for full 10 days
  • yes severe symptoms
    • isolate 10 days then contact doctor before ending isolation

Saturday, January 1, 2022

Omicron Variant...

Hello 2022!

Wishing everyone good health for this new year as we are in the midst of another Covid surge...

So last time, I was writing about the Delta Variant... although there is probably still some Delta in our area, Omicron is becoming more dominant. The last week at work has been pretty crazy! Honestly, the last thing I feel like doing after work is to think about Covid... that is why it is taking me so long to write anything on this blog. Plus, the information pretty much changes almost daily so what I write today may not even be valid tomorrow. With that said, here are bullet points with a few of my personal observations:

  • Omicron seems to be more contagious... I've noticed more so than ever before that if one family member is sick, almost everyone else in the household gets sick or tests positive
    • side note - home tests do not catch covid as accurately as the pcr
      • if positive - no need to retest
      • if negative - may not necessarily mean no covid so talk to your doctor about it if symptoms persist etc.
  • Severity of sickness varies but follows a fairly predictable pattern depending on vaccination status
    • Vaccinated and Boostered - these folks, if they have symptoms at all, usually have a sore throat and maybe some mild congestion or runny nose... report very little fatigue and aches...
    • Vaccinated but not yet Boostered - these folks can still get fatigue, fever, body aches in addition to the sore throat and congestion, but the worse of it usually only lasts a few days or less... and not weeks and weeks...
    • Not Vaccinated - these folks seem to follow the pattern of Covid infected folks similar to back when this whole thing started and we didn't have vaccines yet. So in addition to sore throat, congestion etc the first week, folks may feel better as if getting over it but then feel worse again... I usually find myself checking up on these folks more often and ordering the IVIG treatment for them if they qualify...
Now, ofcourse based on one's underlying health and medical conditions, how fast and sick someone gets with Covid will still vary regardless of vaccination status. 

However, this is the analoigy I like to use. We are at war and Covid is the enemy. Whether you are a strong warrior or someone totally unskilled in fighting, you are fighting with your bare hands without the vaccine. Vaccinated folks are fighting with a shield, a sword, and maybe some bow and arrows. The boostered folks have more weapons at their disposal as their old weapons get damaged or lost in battle. 

What about folks who have had Covid already? I am not too sure, but maybe I see it like this. These folks beat their first battle against the enemy, but here comes more troops from a different enemy and although the experience from the first battle may help more so than if never fought in any battle... having more weapons at hand may still increase the chance of winning with less battle scars. 

Now even with weapons, one may get slashed, beat up, hurt, and even lose... but at least the chances are higher to win than fighting completely weaponless. Then there are those folks who really cannot get vaccinated for underlying health reasons. So going back to my battle analogy, maybe these folks can not pick up a sword or shield because say they only have one arm or something... their chance of survival then would increase if the folks immediately surrounding them are heavily armed and willing to fight the fight for them.

That is my two cents without getting into any details about the science, politics, or whatevers floating out there regarding the vaccine... and regardless of vaccine status, my practice and I will do our best to meet needs and direct care the best we know how with the limited and ever changing information at our disposal.

Truly hope you all stay well and safe in 2022. Happy New Year!


Monday, July 5, 2021

Delta Variant

It's summer! Hope everyone had a good 4th of July. Things are beginning to feel a little more "normal". The mask mandate has lifted and there seem to be more social gatherings. 

So to answer a few common questions I've been asked lately... 

What is the delta variant that everyone is talking about? 
It is also known as lineage B.1.617.2. It is a version of Sars-CoV-2, the virus that causes Covid-19 that has evolved or mutated over time. This particular variant was first detected in India December 2020 and in the US March 2021. 

What is the big deal about it? 
This variant is more contagious than other variants. It potentially can cause another Covid surge in the US. 

Does the vaccine protect against it? 
Yes.  

Which states have the variant? 
There are 5 states where it is spreading the fastest: Missouri, Arkansas, Nevada, Colorado, and Utah. 

Is Covid over yet? 
The number of cases, hospitalizations, and deaths in the US are relatively low right now but there are some hot spots where vaccination rates are low. So... not quite over yet... we'll have to see what happens...




Monday, May 10, 2021

Being a Mom

This is a day late but... Happy Mother's Day to all you moms out there. I want to give a special shout-out to my mom (who I still call "mommy"). Words cannot describe the deep gratitude and love I feel... no list would do justice to all the things that I'm thankful for.


Below is a picture of the cover of a scrapbook that my kids have been drawing in since 2014 (thanks I believe to my sister who gave the idea to my husband)... on top is my gift this year... has each of the kids' names engraved on one of those rings. I received something similar in the past but unfortunately lost some of the little trinkets... so this is great. It reminds me what a blessing and privilege God's given me to help guide these little hearts... but not so little anymore... So every day I pray for wisdom and grace. I am humbled all the time at how far I fall short... at the same time, I am reminded to not measure with my own standards... 


To be honest, being a mother is the hardest thing I've ever had to do... SATs, MCATs, residency, boards...q3 call in the ICU... they do not even come close! Though challenging... and may sound cliche, I would not trade it for the world and am truly grateful for this honor to be called "mom"...

So as a side note, I find it fascinating that the word "mama" (meaning mother) is so similar in many different languages. For example, in Chinese, you would say "ma" or "mama" when you address your mother. It is pretty much the same in Taiwanese except the tonation is slightly different. In Korean, you'd say "o-ma"...


What do you all call your moms? Mother? Mom? Ma?  Who else out there calls her, "mommy" like I do? 😅

Wednesday, April 21, 2021

Covid Vaccine Common Questions

Happy Spring! Sure has been a while... but I've been getting a lot of questions about the Covid19 vaccine lately, so I will try to put together some basic information. Please refer to the cdc website for more details.

First, here is a table summarizing the three vaccines that have been available in the US:


What are the possible side effects?
In the arm where you got the shot...
  • pain
  • redness
  • swelling
Throughout the rest of your body...
  • tiredness
  • headache
  • muscle aches
  • fever/chills
  • nausea
Can you get Covid from the Covid vaccine?
No. There is no live virus in the vaccines. The symptoms you get is your body getting antibodies ready to attack a simulation so that when the real deal comes, it can conquer it. That's the whole point. The symptoms are usually mild to moderate and will go away in 48 hours.

What about the J&J vaccine and blood clots?
So on April 13, the CDC and FDA have recommended a pause in the use of the J&J vaccine. There were 6 reported cases of developing a rare and severe blood clot after getting the vaccine. 6.8 million people have already been vaccinated with the J&J vaccine, so 6 out of 6.8 million is extremely rare. Experts are still investigating the cause of the blood clots and there may be underlying conditions that predisposed those folks who developed that reaction. A second meeting about all this is scheduled for April 23, so stay tuned... 

Contact your physician if between days 6 and 13 post-vaccination you develop:
  • headaches
  • leg pain
  • abdominal pain 
  • shortness of breath
Is it still recommended to get a Covid19 vaccine?
Yes. You can review your personal case with your doctor, but in general, the benefits of protection from Covid19 with these vaccines outweigh any potential side effects that may occur.

What about the timing of getting the vaccine?
So here are a few scenarios where one should wait...
  • If test positive for Covid, you should wait until all symptoms resolve and meet the criteria for discontinuing isolation. 
  • If treated with convalescent plasma or monoclonal antibodies for Covid, then you need to wait 90 days before getting the vaccine.
  • If you got any other vaccines recently, then you should wait 2 weeks before getting the Covid vaccine
What are the benefits of the vaccine?
  • Helps prevent severe infection from Covid19
  • Helps prevent hospitalization from Covid19
  • Helps prevent death from Covid19
  • Helps prevent the spread of Covid19 in asymptomatic people
The bottom line is that vaccines are key to stopping pandemics.

How can we get back to "normal life" sooner?
  • get vaccinated (as long as not contraindicated)
  • wear masks (though vaccinated folks can now potentially unmask indoors with other vaccinated folks)
  • social distance with those who don't live with you (6 ft apart and avoid crowds)
  • wash hands (should always be doing this anyway)
For more specific questions and details, you can check out the cdc website above or discuss with your physician.

So on another note... my family just came back from a little getaway up to the Finger Lakes. My husband and I had visited this area the second year after we got married. Funny, how traveling with four kids changes the ambiance of the trip!

from 2003...

quiet, serene, relaxed... gentle ripples of a lake...

now in 2021

not so quiet, energetic, adventurous... rushing rapids of a waterfall...

Thursday, January 28, 2021

My Google Classroom

So I had a total lightbulb moment last week and I'm so excited about it that I have to share! Honestly, it has been really frustrating for me to not be able to stay organized and on top of all the things that my four kids are doing... whether it be school, music, sports, household stuff etc! I've tried printing out excel sheets... I've tried a huge dry erase board sectioned off for each of the four kids.... I've tried putting everything in google calendar and using notifications. I tried setting reminders on Alexa. None of it worked super well or lasted long... but I think I found a solution!

For a while now, my kids have been doing this virtual school thing and they have become very familiar with google classroom. A couple of months into distance learning last spring, my oldest created her own google classroom for her siblings and cousins. Not long after that, my youngest also started his own google classroom. I really did not pay much attention to any of this but would hear about it from my sister from time to time about how my seven year old was giving tests etc. We just thought it was cute and funny. Then just last week, it dawned on me... I can create a google classroom!  Those who know me know I love excel files and lists... well, this google classroom thing is a total game-changer for how I'm managing this household!


These are some of the ways I've been using my classroom...

  • Linking a daily devotional for them to read, reflect, and respond... the classroom allows group comments so all can share or private comments to me where I can respond back. This really has been awesome!  It was too hard before to do devotions every night with each child separately but now they can read it in their time, respond to me and I can write a thoughtful response back.
  • Putting in daily tasks for them to "mark done" instead of feeling like a broken record asking them over and over again and then forgetting what their answer was after I asked them... so things like putting away laundry, getting outside for exercise, twenty minutes of reading, etc.
  • Attaching links to websites tailored to each kid from their different extracurricular activities (like chess.com or MIT scratch)
  • Attaching a link to the Compassion children we sponsor. Now my kids can read and learn more about them as well as make google docs and submit them back to me so I can send it out. I was the one doing all the correspondence before
  • Attaching links to each others school projects etc. so they can see each other's creative works. Since school turned hybrid this fall, my kids have had plenty of projects that involve using a flipgrid to tape STEM projects they've built or video editing project reports for social studies. In the past, I'd open up my laptop and play the videos for everyone while they were all eating but it would be sporadic and often interrupted... now they can watch when they have a moment and even comment something encouraging to one another
There is more but I will not list them all. Just one more thing...
These are pictures taken from my kid's bathroom this morning when I walked in there.
this so bothers me...

is this so hard to do?  took me 5 seconds...

So this is what I posted today:
Just saying...

So that is my exciting news.  Oh... AND I got my first dose of the COVID-19 vaccine!

Monday, January 4, 2021

Good Bye 2020 and Hello 2021! Hope with the Covid Vaccine...

So 2020 is now behind us... may 2021 be a better year.

Despite the challenges and many difficulties and disappointments that may come to mind when I think of the past year, I have to say that the blessing for me was time to just "be still".  I have the first part of Psalm 46:10 on my bathroom wall:

"Be still and know that I am God"

This past year, I really was forced to be still... at least physically still. I'm still working on how to be mentally still. Here are a few images that come to mind when I reflect back...


puzzles... and more puzzles...

virtual playdates...

kids learned to cook...

drive-by celebrations...

My family also had a chance to make some music together. Here are a few clips for your entertainment...








So what images will 2021 bring? Hoping with the Covid vaccine, we will be able to return to more in-person gatherings sooner than later. So my thoughts on the vaccine?  Without going into too many details about the how and why... I'll answer three main questions here that I am getting asked a lot.

Do I think the vaccine is safe to get? Yes

Do I plan to get the vaccine?  Yes

Do I recommend my family and patients to get the vaccine if they have no contraindications? Yes

Happy New Year, everyone!

Monday, December 14, 2020

Should I Get a Covid-19 Antibody Test?

So another super common question that our patients ask is whether or not to get a Covid-19 antibody test. My thoughts...

Well, first have to explore the reasons behind the testing.

If you are a confirmed positive Covid patient who has recovered and you hope to donate plasma, then you can consider the test. However, the quality of the test varies.  You can see here FDA's updated list of different tests being offered by different companies and how their performance varies. You would have to check what is being offered in your area.

If you are a confirmed positive Covid patient and hope to have antibodies so you don't get sick again, you may want to reconsider whether or not you really want this test.  First of all, the test may not be accurate and your result may be either:
  • false-positive - tells you you have antibodies but really you don't, so you'd have a false sense of security
  • false-negative - tells you you do not have antibodies but really you do
However, even if you do have a true positive antibody to Covid-19, there is not enough evidence to guarantee that you will not get re-infected. So from a practical point of view, regardless of the results, you still have to practice all the same social distancing guidelines as anyone else.

If you are not a confirmed positive Covid patient but think you had it, the same rules above apply.

I get it that a lot of people want to know if that terrible cold they had back in January or last November could have been Covid.  In fact, I want to know myself! However, I am personally waiting for more evidence to come out and for a more accurate test to be available in my area.  Based on the limited data I've seen so far from the antibody testing that our office has ordered, I do not have much confidence in the accuracy or value of that particular test. Plus, since it does not change the management of care or the advice we give, I find little use for it.

As always, contact your physician for a more in-depth discussion. You can find out more about antibody testing in your area and whether or not you are a candidate for it.

So what is the best way to prevent getting sick?
  • practice social distancing (mask and 6 feet apart!)
  • wash your hands frequently (avoid touching your face)
  • get adequate sleep (sleep sleep sleep!)
  • eat healthy (vegetables!)
  • exercise (even if just 15min a day!)
  • decrease stress (carve time for yourself daily)
Stay safe, everyone! It's beginning to look a lot like...